handofaegis: (Serious look)
Aegis ([personal profile] handofaegis) wrote2016-07-20 12:31 pm

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So, hey, um. This is a pretty weird question to be asking, and you'd think I'd at least know it, but to be fair, the one it's about was pretty reclusive for a long time, but...

What do you do when someone is down and hung up on something that they couldn't have controlled?

[personal profile] theheadmonarch 2016-07-20 05:45 pm (UTC)(link)


You be there for them.

[personal profile] theheadmonarch 2016-07-20 07:01 pm (UTC)(link)


Tag along.

Obstinately.

Like a puppy.

[personal profile] theheadmonarch 2016-07-21 05:15 am (UTC)(link)


Well there you go.

Just hang around with them.
ogrewarrior: (Art of antagonizing)

[personal profile] ogrewarrior 2016-07-21 02:13 am (UTC)(link)
Ya want the answer I think ya need to hear or the answer my cynicism wants to say?
ogrewarrior: (I'm not ALL looks and brawn)

[personal profile] ogrewarrior 2016-07-21 02:46 am (UTC)(link)
Like Noriko said, be there for them, try and talk it out. If need be, get a third party in to help talk about it, if you're too close to the problem and they're not gonna talk to you.

Or, ya just give them time and space and wait, possibly for a long time given your lifespans.
ogrewarrior: (Happy face)

[personal profile] ogrewarrior 2016-07-21 03:19 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, that's... Fair.

If we're going with me trying to be positive, I'm willing to be a third party. They, uh. A Barian like you?
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[personal profile] ogrewarrior 2016-07-21 03:34 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, I don't think I do! I think it's just the perfect excuse for me to see all of ya guys in one place and we can all chill out and have a drink!
ogrewarrior: (wat)

[personal profile] ogrewarrior 2016-07-21 03:59 am (UTC)(link)
I just wanna meet people and have a good time, really. Whatever I learn is gonna just be through conversations.
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[personal profile] ogrewarrior 2016-07-21 04:49 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, alright. This has been on my to-do list for a bit, but now that my mom's settled down and the god's.... taken care of, we'll do this!
ogrewarrior: (Hungover)

[personal profile] ogrewarrior 2016-07-21 05:18 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, uh. No.

I just, ah... Hadn't seen her for a little over forty years.
ogrewarrior: (wat)

[personal profile] ogrewarrior 2016-07-21 05:32 am (UTC)(link)
...Yeah.

I thought she was a dream for most of my adult life, brought on by maybe trauma? Nah, I was really raised in the woods by a giant woman for a bit.
ogrewarrior: (wat)

[personal profile] ogrewarrior 2016-07-21 05:37 am (UTC)(link)
Ah, it's fine! I'm fine.

Just things got a little chaotic for me when she showed up here, wondering where her little boy disappeared to.
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[personal profile] ogrewarrior 2016-07-21 05:46 am (UTC)(link)
I don't think she's from Earth.